Question: We've been married two years. My wife continually chooses her family over me. She's always on the phone with them, helping them, mediating disputes. I keep telling her they take up too much time, but it's like she don't get it. She keeps saying they need her. Then she cuts back supposedly and I catch her sneaking to talk them on the phone. We're all adults. Don't they get she's a wife now. They need to handle their own mess. She's my wife and I'm supposed to come first. Her family has a lot of issues. I don't expect…
Question: My brother took his life a few years ago and I’ve changed for the worse. I’m mean to my husband. I don’t mean to be but I have so much anger built up inside. What do we do as a couple to get better? Answer: I am so sorry about your loss and right off the bat, it seems that you have a lot of unresolved grief. Individually, you need to process your feelings about your brother's death and perhaps your feelings towards your brother as well. Your husband can be patient and understanding, but you need to do…
Question: My husband and I have been married for several years and we have 3 kids. We were both Christians when we married and shared the same beliefs. My husband has determined that he is no longer a Christian (after reading lots of books). He’s not an atheist and I can’t explain what he is. We argue about this. He says I can continue going to church and even take the kids, but he won’t go. He says he’d never want to change my beliefs, but his have changed. How can this work? He’s the head of the household and…
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