Question: I've been married for almost 18 yrs. I can't say that I am happily married because ever since we said "I do" we've had problems. My husband has flings with different women and on my part it's so hard and painfull to handle his womanizer attitude and his being an alcoholic. We're living in one roof but our relationship is not like that of a married happy couple. My husband is with me but his heart and mind is with his mistresses. He doesn't treat me as his wife. He doesn't love us, my kids and me. Sometimes I…
Question: My husband and I have been married for a year and a half, and for the past year its like i have to beg him to have sex with me. I ve brought it to his attention how we are not intimate with each other like we use to be and he said things will change. That was 6 months ago. Now when i ask him, he just tells me no or later or the weekend. I don't know what to do. Answer: I can see how much this problem is worrying you, but take a deep breath. The…
Question: I need some serious help. I found out my husband has been using drugs a few weeks ago and we have been arguing and fussing at each other since. Before this we were very happy but now all we do is argue. Help. Answer: If you are dealing with an addict, and it sounds as if you may be, you need to understand a few things. You are no longer dealing with a rational thinker. Drug addicts have what is referred to as "stinking thinking" or distorted thinking. Once an addict becomes addicted to drugs, all he can think…
Question: I've been married for almost 10 years and am a pastor's wife. There was an incident that put our marriage at stake. I am ashamed of what people around me think because of the incident. Because of it, I am considering going back to my hometown for good and taking our child, leaving my husband. Is my decision correct? Please help me. Answer: It is difficult for me to answer this completely, given the fact that I do not know the circumstances about which you are speaking, but I will try to answer in a general way. It seems…
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